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Nov. 2nd, 2023 08:59 pmMe (never fell in love with a person, never had been in a romantic relationship, and learned about romance from media): * searches for 100500 hours about a healthy and realistic romantic relationship, tries to figure out in his head how to build good and long-term relationships between characters, asks his friends who have at least once experienced romantic attraction to someone how it all works, and so on*
Also me: (Looks at the piece of text where one character blushes when their loved one comes in the room) What if this is unrealistic and too clichéd? (Looks at the piece where two characters who are together had an argument) Yes, this happens, but what if this is abusive? Yes, they will talk about this when they both calm down, but still... (Realized people would also love to read the story for 18+ scenes, and I have no idea how to write them since I have no experience in 18+ stuff, too) So, maybe one character will be asexual, why not? Some people have relationships without 18+... WHAT. IF. THIS. IS. NOT. REALISTIC!?
Sorry, I needed to say that. I'm really nervous about these things, and I wanted to express this somehow.
Also me: (Looks at the piece of text where one character blushes when their loved one comes in the room) What if this is unrealistic and too clichéd? (Looks at the piece where two characters who are together had an argument) Yes, this happens, but what if this is abusive? Yes, they will talk about this when they both calm down, but still... (Realized people would also love to read the story for 18+ scenes, and I have no idea how to write them since I have no experience in 18+ stuff, too) So, maybe one character will be asexual, why not? Some people have relationships without 18+... WHAT. IF. THIS. IS. NOT. REALISTIC!?
Sorry, I needed to say that. I'm really nervous about these things, and I wanted to express this somehow.
